You and ENERGY
As we learn to 'play' with the energies around us, we encounter other peoples energy. Without even said a word, their energy is transmitted and (even if not noticed), brought into your energy system.
People who have a 'superiour attitude' can easily bring you out of balance. Without a word you can feel tired, uneasy, of-balance, insecure and even in-able of being yourself.
They have mis-used their energy (most of the time out of ignorance) and you have to deal with it. Sometimes that is difficult to do.
During a conversation energies are send:
People who feel they are better then you, have a bigger house, bigger car, more money, bigger ego, think of themselves they are the most wonderful person in the world (born out of their sence of insecurety), think that the life you live is 'stupid', are judgemental, feel sorry or pitty for your 'miserable' life, put you down, think they know better and you should apply to that no matter what you bring into the conversation, etc. ... and acting out on this, without words most of the time, THINK THESE THOUGHTS and send them into the energy-field which is created when you are in conversation.
Immediately you can sense the energy drawn away from you.
You are not really yourself anymore and you find yourself hearing the answers you probably would not have given when the energy was one of respect and balance.
Trying to balance the energies and going back to your center is not always possible, especially when you are still in the learning-process with it.
What to do in these situations?
The first thing is to balance their superior energy. They feel they are somehow better or greater than you, and that makes you feel inferior. Really quick the energy is sucked-out of you and they feed on your energy. The more inferior energy you send out at THAT point, the bigger there sense of superiority will get.
But why is the energy of inferiority there with you?
Because at one point they have send this superior energy towards you (without words) and you did not pay (enough) attention to it. The trick is to learn that and then you will be able to remain balance, love and in your center of being.
When people USE WORDS to make you feel less, its much easier to deal with then when only thoughts are send.
You see the other person speak the words and the expression of their face (i.e. disgust) and your ears are hearing the words they speak.
You hear the words and can set yourself in a 'one minute conversation with self': "Is this true?" you can ask yourself and turn back the clock ... (meaning: balance the energies).
Use words to speak like: "Is that so?" to get into neutrality.
Now when words are UNSPOKEN, you see the other person SMILING at you but you hear nothing. Yet you feel awfull tired or insecure in a split-second.
It throws you of-balance, these mixed-signals: you see the other smiling at you. Yet you also feel the energy sucked out of you and you don't know what is happening: the other is smiling at you, right?
"So why am I feeling so awful?" you wonder really quick.
"Is it me doing something wrong?" And THIS is the moment you let your guard-down and the insecurety of THAT thought is brought into their system to grow more into their superiority. All things in motion and the conversation probably will lead to words they use to feel even more superior: they will chose subjects to talk about to really get their cookie, because it feels great to feed on anothers energy. It makes you feel bigger and better and superior-energy wants more of that.
Inferior energy wants more of that too... so after ending this conversation you will feel so thrown-off, you think of never wanting to meet with them, ever. They will leave you with a bigger ego and the next time they will probably try that trick again.
In other words, already prepare yourself for the next time you meet.
The MIND will say: no ... I don't want to interact with these people ever. Toss MIND out and KNOW you are learning to USE your energy!
How to meet the next time?
It would be nice when you can set a date of meeting, so that they can not get you off-guard in appearing spontaniously. (Note here: Have you noticed that a lot of people who think they are 'superior' appear unnoticed at your doorstep?)
The best thing to do is follow your routine (prepare) like you are going to meditate, in how YOU want to do it, what is the best way for you. To put yourself in contact with silence, balance and unconditional love, in center.
When the confrontation (meeting) starts, you look into their eyes, see the smile and KNOW they are sending thoughts, sending mixed signals.
Look closer at the smile, don't absorp the energy but just try pick up their thoughts.
If these thoughts are: 'You look terrible today, or ... what stupid clothes you wear (etc)... you just pick them up and leave the emotions out.
Just KNOW you ARE ABLE to pick up thoughts and be stronger with THAT.
Now BALANCE yourself a bit more. CENTER yourself a bit more.
Probably you will have to do this a couple of times during the conversation because people THINK A LOT ... and JUDGE A LOT.
KNOW it so!
Step by step you can 'use' these conversations to learn yourself about THOUGHTS, PICKING them up, LEAVING them out of your energy-system to the place where they belong, MIXED-signals, Superior and Inferior.
Any THOUGHTS of you according to this article are welcome to write in email ;-)
Posted: 12:18:03 PM
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